Decode his kiss - The Study

Whether hard and fast or gentle and erotic, his smooch can clue you in to his carnal cravings. Read on to learn what his lips are trying to tell you.

The sensual kiss
Soft, lingering, and arousing? Yes, please! This kind of kiss is meant to ignite all of your senses—his hands will roam over your body, and his lips will move gently over yours. “This kiss says that he’s emotionally present and in the mood for a truly intimate experience,” says New York City psychologist Max Belkin, Ph.D.

“You can expect plenty of attention to be paid to your needs.” But hey, don’t forget about him. Match his mood by stroking his arms or kissing down his neck, then back up to his mouth.

The timid kiss
A tentative smooch seems chaste, but it might mean he’s unsure of how to heat things up. If you want to get down to business, you’ll have to give him the green light. “Kiss him back with more intensity, maybe indicating that you want to use tongue,” explains Los Angeles sex therapist Patti Britton, Ph.D.

“Then place his hand on a naughty part of your body, like your thigh. It’s a signal that you want him, and it’ll give him confidence to make the next move.”

The teasing kiss
When he nibbles on your bottom lip and then pulls away or kisses you everywhere but your mouth, he’s baiting you. “He is feeling frisky and trying to get you into that playful sexual spirit,” says Britton. “To show him you’re up for it, suggest something more experimental, like a new toy or sex in the shower.”

He’ll also love knowing that his teasing games are having the desired effect, so tell your guy just how bad he’s making you want him.

The aggressive kiss
If he grabs your face and pulls you in for a passionate make out session, you can expect the same aggressive style in bed. In the mood for something a bit gentler?

“Pull away, look him in the eye, and coyly tell him to slow down and take his time,” says Belkin.

“If he starts to pick up speed, pull away again.” That should help him realise that the only way he’s going to get some is if he simmers down...just a little.

Courtesy: Cosmopolitan